Sunday, December 27, 2009

Boy It Has Been A Long Time In Coming...Merry Christmas!

I had hoped to wish everyone a Very Merry Christmas and an even Happier New Year...but we have spotty internet, so I don't always get to blog...at least not in the last few weeks! But enough with the whining already...

We have already started looking for a new place to live. We have begun filling out our adoption paperwork and also found that there really in not a requirement for how close a sex offender can live to you...which shocked us and our SW! But Tony and I don't feel safe with an offender so close (and the fact that it just isn't safe or healthy here), so we are opting to leave here and live elsewhere, where the girls will be safe, but even though we are moving because of that, I think I may be a 'helicopter' mom, at least for the first 20 years they are here!

Tony is still struggling with his job, I know, I know...at least he has one, but with so much drama and stress, to what end? So any prayers will be extremely appreciated. He is really struggling with the hours and his RM's morals, or should I say 'lack of' morals. He also doesn't want to be a part time dad, even our boys had him more than the normal child and we don't want the girls to lack that part of him...he is too good a dad for that...

We also need to find a time to sit down and tell my parents about the girls. They know from the car magnets that we are advocating for Reece's Rainbow, but we haven't found the right time to tell them about our magnificent plans to adopt out of country! Please pray for that too!

So in looking back over the last 6 months, Andrea was right, take your time and work at it, it may not happen as quick as 'we' wanted...God knows best, and His time is really what matters!

We have already grown to love these girls and just can't wait to bring them home. So our true prayer and hope is that we can go and bring them home before next Christmas to enjoy a real home with real parents and lots of love!

We are praying to be able to secure our commitment fee before their next birthday, February 27, 2010. I can't think of a better birthday present for them!!! Please pray with us for this gift!

Hope everyone of you has a God Blessed New Year!

4 comments:

  1. Oh JoEllen! That's only two months from today...can't wait until it's "official". Will be following you closely and will celebrate that day with you. Thanks for being such a great cheerleader for us...can't wait to do the same for you!

    Love In Him, Paula

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  2. Praying for you that you can raise the money for the commitment fee soon...and as you tell your parents about their new grandchildren...twins are extra special and I hope they will be just as excited as you are about your new daughters!

    Rachel
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    afamilyforanastasiya.blogspot.com

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  3. JoEllen, did you see that Shelley has news on the twins? Positive news, from what I understood!



    - I'm blogging for Nadya; to help her find a family -

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  4. Hi Milena,

    Thanks and Yes I did. I wrote and asked for the paper work to start the process. We are still trying to secure the total amount for the Promise fee. I am working to host a gold party to help. Pray for that party to be a success...we could easily earn at least half if it works the way it's supposed to... :)

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